It is big impact from the Red 1st Blogversary Contest, I couldnt sleep for many nights. I need to face them and I need to be firm and steady. I just hope for a better day tomorrow, life is full of challenge. read more »
I am feeling kind of moody lately, one of the reasons is some people not thinking about our condition. The person keeps tell us good things about other people using and like they are using the electric cooker and having automatic gate at home. I know that I am earning not much online and my [...] read more »
So you know when you're a kid and your mom tells you something is bad, like not looking both ways before you cross the street or playing too close to fire? And you remember and know the lesson but you can't help but be curious about how hot that fire is or think that it's lame to ALWAYS look both ways if no traffic is coming? Good advice. But do we always follow that in our dating lives? Well, let's think about. More often than we should, we accommodate the bad boys (this includes but is not limited to:... read more »
It may be pretty safe to assume that at one point or another, most of us have formed snap judgments on someone based on how they're dressed, how they carry themselves or even who they're with. Whatever it is, we immediately allow ourselves to run with all sorts of theories and speculations, which seem much more appealing over the realities.
It's this "ability"-- the one of making abrupt assessments -- that I constantly work on, especially in dating. While I've gotten tons better in the last couple of ... read more »
Just this week, Marisol and I were having some dinner when we spent some time talking about one of her colleagues, Shelly (who I've been out with before), and some of her recent dating experiences. This opened up the floodgates for Marisol and I to discuss the deal breakers. You know -- what you will not give on when dating someone. Later that night and since then, I've found myself thinking about that very thing. What are my "deal breakers" when dating someone? Truth is, I think it's a good thing to ... read more »
In the world of dating, when one door closes, another one often opens rather quickly. Now, usually, that's a good thing.
Operative term there is "usually." And, while we know the logical thing to do when it comes to our dating lives (i.e. when to say yes or no, what people we should let into our lives or when we should stay away from someone with baggage), we as people ultimately like to get at least a little close to the fire -- for the thrill if nothing else.
Granted, I think this skews heavily f... read more »
So the last few days I've been mulling over a theory that I kind of want to put out there to see where it lands:In any relationship, at some point, one person will end up "giving" a little more than the other. See, here's the thing: Ideally, relationships are a 50/50 split. It takes two to make it work or as one of my favorite Twitterers, @Moxieinthecity once said in a tweet: "There's a difference between jumping through hoops and dancing a tango. Only 1 person needed to hold the hoop. 2 needed to dance.... read more »